1. Redefine your goals
We set high goals for ourself this results in mental fatigue and anxiety. Why it is hard to achieve our goals? Because we want more than we deserve.
Get a pen and a paper. Rewrite your resolutions for 2021. Check them. Are you pressurising yourself? Are your goals higher than they should be? Take your time, think about it. And don’t hesitate to redefine your goals.
2. Learn in your way
I am happy to tell you that, I was called looser once because I was one of those 5 toppers from the last in the class of 42. I was uncomfortable with some subjects and their medium.
It does not mean I have to do nothing with that. I was slower on those subjects. For example maths, I worked hard to learn it. I improved my performance. Yes, the way I think of maths is indeed different from maths lovers. I passed my math exam and chosen the social sciences. My fear of maths was completely disappeared.
My maths lover friends are building their career in engineering and I am using maths in my daily life. We are using our teacher’s teaching in our own way.Loku
3. Happiness in small things
Looking for happiness in small things is an interesting idea. You can watch a movie on your smartphone instead of a cinema hall. Make a simple drawing and attach it to the wall. Talk with your family members more patiently. You can write a haiku instead of a longer post.
Go to a park, watch different objects their. Flowers are very beautiful and their green leaves. There are some tall trees. Birds making beautiful sounds and noises.
4. Pay for the value
Pay your respect and love to the value. This value may be a person or an object. You can buy everything with your money which has labels of price on it. But you have to feel the joy and happiness which someone provides you.
I find some people funny, they make me laugh. On the other hand, my friend hates such people, he doesn’t want to see them again. Pay respect to humans.
You can not buy happiness and joy with the money but you can use your money efficiently.
Can you suggest to me how I can add more value to my content?
5. Appreciate your efforts
Do not always wait for others to appreciate your efforts. If you believe you are right, you can improve your performance then keep it up. Recheck your work, work on mistakes, search for positive points.
Increase your efforts. Try everything you can do. Get the best research before writing your post. Learn from your fellow friends who are doing well. Don’t limit yourself to a closed room. Open yourself, try different topics to get your perfect niche. You should have a wider approach and curiosity to search deeper and deeper in the ocean of your thoughts.
6. You are unique
You are unique. You are maybe a unique blogger or a unique photographer. Being unique means to try something different.
Funny side of uniqueness: You are maybe a unique stupid person. One person decided to be unique. He wears unique clothes, a combination of gents and ladies clothes every time. Your uniqueness must have some meaning.
7. Recognize your positive points
As you know, everyone is not perfect but we try to improve our work, achieve more abilities.
Yes, you are not good at something which your competitor has. You are not too dumb that you cannot start a single positive word.
Write down your five positives points ( your skills, interest, hobbies and similar things) on a paper. Take your time to understand them. Ask yourself “ How I can change my interest in a master skill?”
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